While detailed descriptions of young women’s first sexual experiences are available (see, for example, Thompson (1990) or Tolman and colleagues (2003)) much less is known about adolescent boys.Įxisting data provide a demographic portrait of adolescent boys’ early sexual behaviours. These factors should be incorporated in harm-reduction interventions for young men in similar contexts.įirst sexual experiences are considered particularly salient by both adolescents and researchers ( Lewin 1982 Cooksey, Mott and Neubauer 2002 Rebello and Gomes 2009) ( Traeen and Kvalem 1996) ( Holland et al. Mentorship, initiation by the female, and idealising sex as a romantic experience, played important roles in constructing the context of first sex. The dominant narrative of first sex proceeded through three steps: (1) Preparation, which involved identification of a sexualised space, mentoring by an older man, and pre-planning (2) the event, which involved looking for cues indicating sexual interest and consent from a female partner, feelings of fear/nervousness, and first sex itself and (3) afterwards, which involved a return to prior activities, minimal verbal exchange and a general positive feeling, sometimes accompanied by later disappointment. Descriptions of first sex were identified, and then analysed for narrative structure and shared concepts. city were asked about relationships and sexual experiences in a one hour face-to-face semi-structured interview, with two follow-up interviews at 6–9 month intervals. Using qualitative methods, 14 adolescent men (ages 14–16, all low income, most African American) from a mid-sized U.S. Yet these data that are needed to inform STI and early fatherhood prevention efforts, particularly in lower income communities.
Finally, I became a sex object, a ’man toy,’ to cute guys much younger than myself.ĭirty Young Men and Other Gay Stories is packed full of erotic true stories from the author’s real life experience.There are limited contextual data regarding first sexual experiences of younger adolescent men. Wouldn’t it be nice, I kept hoping, if for once I would fulfill somebody’s sexual fantasies, and be picked for just this reason? Well, at the age of fifty-five, my daydreams started to become a reality. I hadn’t been selected out of a crowd just because someone thought I would be a good lay.
Before reaching this age, nobody had ever been infatuated with my looks or physique.
In Dirty Young Men and Other Gay Stories, he relates his experiences with them in intimate detail.ĭirty Young Men and Other Gay Stories is packed full of true younger-loves-older stories from all walks of life and from different countries.įrom the author: It took me until my middle fifties to become a sex object. Joseph Itiel (author of Escort Tales A Consumer’s Guide to Male Hustlers and Sex Workers as Virtual Boyfriends), now in his early seventies, has discovered such young fellows.
But a few young guys, sometimes even married ones, are erotically attracted to old men, because of their age. It is well known that to most gay men, a shapely, youthful body is the ultimate turn-on.
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